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Welcome to your go-to hub for all things love and dating! 

I'm Kat, thrilled to welcome you to this treasure trove of free dating advice tools. Yes, you read that right—tools designed to sprinkle a bit of magic on your dating journey without costing a penny!

You’ll find a wealth of insights, tips, and resources to navigate the exciting world of dating. Whether you're gearing up for that nerve-wracking first date, deciphering the language of love, or simply seeking a little boost of confidence, consider this your one-stop shop for all things dating.
Let's turn your dating experience into a joyful, confidence-boosting adventure, one click at a time. Your journey to love starts here, and I'm honored to be your guide!

Free Dating Tools

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Free Life and Dating Tools

The Top 14 Red Flags In Modern Dating.

Tired of mistaking fleeting charm for genuine affection? This guide zeroes in on the 14 warning signs that your dream date might be a nightmare in disguise. Learn to identify the red flags that signal trouble, empowering yourself to make smarter, more informed dating decisions. Perfect your dating instincts and protect your heart with critical insights that pave the way for healthier, happier relationships. Transform your love life now!

exercises & reflections

Before embarking on the journey to find your ideal partner, it's crucial to explore and understand the most important character in your story: yourself. This journey is more than just self-examination; it's an adventure into the depths of your being. Dive into the layers of your personality, desires, fears, and dreams. Gaining a deep understanding of your core self is not only illuminating—it's vital. Why? Because knowing yourself clearly helps you understand exactly who you want to accompany you in life's journey.

Affirmation worksheets

Transform your mindset with our Affirmations Worksheets! Designed to guide you through crafting positive and empowering affirmations, these worksheets will help you build confidence, attract love, and unlock your full potential. Start your journey toward self-empowerment and embrace a more confident, authentic you!"

Goal worksheets

Achieve your relationship goals with our Goal Worksheets! Designed to help you clarify your intentions, break down objectives into actionable steps, and maintain motivation, these tools will guide you toward finding love. Start setting your dating goals today and take the next step toward building the fulfilling relationship you deserve!

Gratitude worksheets

Achieve your relationship goals with our Goal Worksheets! Designed to help you clarify your intentions, break down objectives into actionable steps, and maintain motivation, these tools will guide you toward finding love. Start setting your dating goals today and take the next step toward building the fulfilling relationship you deserve!

Deal breakers worksheets

Looking for love? Start by defining your non-negotiables! Our Deal Breakers Worksheet helps you identify the fundamental traits or behaviors you absolutely cannot compromise on. By focusing on what your perfect guy cannot be, you’ll stay open to new possibilities while staying true to your values. Download the worksheet, list your deal breakers, and keep it handy. If you meet someone who doesn’t hit any of these deal breakers, give him a chance—you never know who might turn out to be your perfect match!

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Matchmaker's Bookshelf 

Kat’s Recommended Reads

Welcome to the Matchmaker's Bookshelf—a selection of my favorite books on dating and personal development. Each title has been chosen to inspire, educate, and guide you through the complexities of relationships and self-improvement. Dive into these pages and discover new perspectives and strategies to enhance your journey towards love and personal growth. Happy reading!

Dating

Marry Him – Lori Gottlieb
Make Your Move – Jon Birger
Get the Guy – Matthew Hussey
Have Him at Hello – Rachel Greenwald
Get More Dates Than Your Skinny Friends – Kat Bacon

Personal Development

The 5 Second Rule –Mel Robbins
The Slight Edge – Jeff Olson
The Aladdin Factor – Mark Victor Hansen, Jack Canfield
Atomic Habits – James Clear
Make Your Bed - Admiral William H. McRaven
Can’t Hurt Me – David Goggins